It has been a while since I have written. That is because I am getting busier now, and going through some adjustments in my private life as well.
I wanted to talk about something that came up a couple of weeks ago. A friend of mine mentioned that he was trying to take kinky photos of himself. So he tied himself up and then hit the timer of the camera before hopping himself into place.
My immediate reaction was to be completely flabbergasted. Most, if not all of the accidental BDSM deaths you hear about in the media are caused by people doing self bondage or some one leaving some one else bound and unattended. This is just dumb practice. So unless you really want the gory details of your private life to make the front page news. In a way that would make even your dead grandma role over in her grave....Never ever do bondage alone. If you really have the need to do self bondage, get a friend you trust to sit quietly in the corner if you must. But please, do not add to the bad media of the community.
