Perfectionism!

I used to be paralyzed by perfectionism. Not a very Dominate thing to say.

I thought, how can I possibly dominate a person until I have all the skills I need. On the other hand, how am I going to get the skills I need, if I do not have any one to practice with.

Then along the way I realized some very important thing.

1.) Be honest.

2.) Do not be afraid to try.

3.) You do not have to be perfect.

We are all human after all. If a submissive wants a Dominate that knows everything and never messes up, forget it. A power exchange has more to do with trust. Be trust worthy by communicating and then you can get threw those imperfect moments together.