Loving life right now.

I am kind of liking my life right now. I basically belong to two poly/BDSM houses/community groups...I do not know that they are called. Two groups of people (...there that works). Over at Denver Bound I am making lots of fiends, learning rope and generally getting to be my silly playful self. And then at Sir Basil's house I have a best friend...though going through some major rough times with his health has been my solid rock this year. So over at his house I have a couple of rope bottoms who stop by and willingly let me practice my rope tying skills on them. Gawd...I can not get enough rope.

In my private life (for me my private life is the vanilla side of things) I have just started a new job with a great company...and right in the nick of time. I enjoy my job and I feel I have a future here.

So it is Friday night and I am home alone...and that is OK some times. I have spent the evening posting my munch on Fetlife and looking forward to meeting new people and seeing old friends next weekend.

Loving Life,

Annabel

Hello all. I have done some serious cleaning house this year. I think I went through a period of trying to please everybody and not having the confidence to know what I really want. But things are finally turning around for me. What do I really want? I want to be the best damn rope switch I can be. I feel that I am already what I would call an advanced rope bottom, as are a number of my friends. And now I am learning the top side. I am feeling confident today because I had a very good practice session last night. Woot!

I have learned many things in my dating life recently to. Number 1: My love language is communication. If people do not communicate with me...we do not have a relationship. Right? I have also seen the difference between Polyamory and Pan-amory. OK I made that word up...but the point being....Just because I am open to loving more then one does not mean I have to love everyone. Get my drift? The hard part is getting that point across to others. ;-)

In my private life (which in my case mean the vanilla side. lol) I finally have a permanent job...and in the nick of time to. I came with in $1 of loosing my apartment last month. I think I am going to like this job and it is going to work out well with my family life. Making coffee baby! What is not to like?