Hello all. I have done some serious cleaning house this year. I think I went through a period of trying to please everybody and not having the confidence to know what I really want. But things are finally turning around for me. What do I really want? I want to be the best damn rope switch I can be. I feel that I am already what I would call an advanced rope bottom, as are a number of my friends. And now I am learning the top side. I am feeling confident today because I had a very good practice session last night. Woot!

I have learned many things in my dating life recently to. Number 1: My love language is communication. If people do not communicate with me...we do not have a relationship. Right? I have also seen the difference between Polyamory and Pan-amory. OK I made that word up...but the point being....Just because I am open to loving more then one does not mean I have to love everyone. Get my drift? The hard part is getting that point across to others. ;-)

In my private life (which in my case mean the vanilla side. lol) I finally have a permanent job...and in the nick of time to. I came with in $1 of loosing my apartment last month. I think I am going to like this job and it is going to work out well with my family life. Making coffee baby! What is not to like?